How’s Your Sex Game? Study Reveals How Long You Really Need To Last
Alright, let’s just get this out of the way now. It’s happened to us all, don’t lie to yourself. It’s nothing to be ashamed of either, even the great ones have an off night every now and then. No biggie.
About 1 in 3 men experience premature ejaculation at some point in their lives. Even thinking about it tends to make matters so much worse, leaving everyone hanging… But are you really coming up short in the sack? A recent study surveyed more than 1,000 anonymous men and women to see how long men lasted in bed, honestly, and the results are actually very surprising.
So don’t worry guys, we’ll help you up your game. And before you know it, you’ll be going from Jim Levenstein in American Pie to James Bond in, umm, James Bond.
As common as busting one off early is, the anxiety it causes is even more of a problem. 31% of men think they finish too quickly, but when you compare how long men last on average, it’s actually the exact amount of time women are hoping for. So don’t stress yourselves out boys, you’re doing just fine.
There’s a lot more that goes into it than just 14 minutes of the horizontal tango though. Women shared how long they like to spend on all sexual activities, so keep this in mind the next time you do the deed, she’ll thank you for it! About 8 minutes of thank you’s.
Whatever route people chose to get there, about 75% of women feel like their partner lasts long enough for them to orgasm. So for 3 of you reading this, good job! For that 1 guy, don’t worry man, here are some tips to help.
There’s a ton of things you can try to delay the inevitable. In fact, 96% of men have tried at least one of these, the most common being to simply switch sex positions. From personal experience, depending what the switch is, that could potentially lead to even more trouble, but that’s just me. Go ahead and try these out for yourself, see what works best for you.
Perhaps the simplest option, and definitely the safest, is to just wrap it up.
Based on all the techniques men used to try and last a little longer, it seems that the most promising ones are mental, no surprise there. It’s all in your head guys. No, not down there, your actual head.
While men are trying to go that extra mile, women are looking for shortcuts to a quicker orgasm. Here are the best positions they say will do the trick.
Probably the most surprising stat, more than 7 of 10 women say that sex can still be satisfying even if they don’t reach the finish line. So all those times I’ve heard, “it’s ok, it was still good for me,” actually might not be lies. Phew! That’s a weight off my shoulders.
If you still find yourself in a literal sticky situation, no worries, here are some things you can do to help your lady friend get there too.
Now take what you’ve learned here today and put it to good use!